Sunday, 2 September 2012

A Mindset of Possibilities!

I was recently on a reunion getaway trip to Dubai with my high school classmates. It was an awesome experience in so many ways. The excitement of meeting up with friends I hadn't seen in well over twenty years, the beauty of being in a dream city, the bliss of a few days of relaxation and the joys of exploring and shopping without a bother. It was a perfect holiday, we couldn't have chosen a more pleasurable destination than Dubai. With their clean air, wide expanse of road networks, astounding marvels of architecture, I dare say I was in a different time and space.

Driving into the city in the early hours of the morning. Amidst the oohs and ahhs of the magnificence before us, one of the ladies told of an uncle who says he didn't like to visit Dubai. I was of course prompted to ask why? Who wouldn't want to visit this loveliness? I was puzzled until she went on to explain. According to her uncle, Dubai and Nigeria were on the same scale developmentally 25yrs ago. But now in comparism with Nigeria, it saddens him coming to Dubai to be faced with how well they have done and how far they have come. A sadness that resonates with me.

And as I soaked in the wonder of their serene and beatific environment, my mind unavoidably channels homewards to Nigeria. Churning in comparism at the beauty of how a system and its people can be developed to work. Why can't this be same back home I wondered. What is it about the people and countries that have been able to achieve these outstanding results that daily elude us in Nigeria. What is it about their mindset that they are able to achieve and deliver successful developments?

In my short stay in the 'city that never sleeps' everyday was a wonder, a reason to wake up and go. I couldn't get enough of the beautiful scenery, the seemingly out of this world architecture, the orderliness, the commitment to service, clean air, everything worked, people seemed to know what was right and did it.

I remember walking out to the 'taxi pool' at one of the malls. The amazing line up of taxis streaming in and out. The passengers not needing to be directed queued and boarded orderly. I observed the 'control wardens' each carrying out their duties with courtesy and dignity of labour. The one who had to blow the whistle did so timely, the one who had to flag out the taxis did so precisely, and the taxis filed in, filled out and drove away almost like clockwork. There were no shouts, curses or chaos. The system worked seamlessly. I went to the mall to shop and got sold on proof that it is possible. If it is possible in Dubai, it is possible in Nigeria.

The road network was amazing not to mention peaceful. With my reluctance towards driving, those roads would have wooed me. No blaring horns or congested pile ups. Wide, open and welcoming. Stretched expanse of smooth tar unblemished with unnecessary speed bumps not to imagine potholes. Clean, well lit at night streets and no trash littering anywhere. You could walk the streets day or night without fear or intimidation. I doubt I spotted any 'police man', traffic wardens or the equivalent of our numerous 'security/road traffic enforcement brigade' yet there were no congestion or disregard for traffic rules and regulations. It is possible. If it is possible in Dubai, it is possible in Nigeria.

I saw good service, delivered professionally with a human touch. At our hotel, the staff exemplified hospitality. It didn't matter if it was the cleaner, the doorman or the manager. Everyone was courteous. There was evident willingness to assist. Your coffee was brought with a smile. Your bags were taken and stowed politely without any expectations of a tip. It is their job or duty and they did it. You were met at the elevators by chance and your day was pleasantly inquired after. They understood you were the guest and the reason for their business or employment. All around I saw a people who took pride in labour whatever the capacity. Neat and smartly attired. It is possible. If it is possible in Dubai, it is possible in Nigeria.

On the desert safari adventure, I was irrevocably affirmed on my 'it is possible' mindset and campaign. An exhilarating ride through the desert, roaring up, cresting and plummeting down the impressive sand dunes. A waste land creatively transformed into a revenue generating structure. You paid to get your adrenaline junkie rush or be scared out of your mind. Entertained and treated to a night of culture etc. I think to myself, if the desert famed for its unfriendly and harsh conditions can be put to such good use, how much more the many abounding human friendly resources in Nigeria. It is possible. If it is possible in Dubai, it is possible in Nigeria.

Dubai was fun, a fantastic getaway. A marvel, a place of affirmation. A tangible example that an effective working system can emerge from a 'can do' mindset translated in action.

So impressed was I with the city called Dubai that I began following His Highness Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum. The Prime Minister and Vice President of the UAE and constitutional monarch of Dubai. Described as an embodiment of energetic and successful leadership. A man who has made promises and kept them, insisted on excellence and achieved nothing less. A description that tells a great deal on how and why Dubai is the city we see today and their milestones for the future.

On April 7 he tweeted on his twitter page.

'I believe happiness comes from within. The govt's job is to facilitate people's lives & create opportunities for its citizens to be happier'

'I disagree with many who say “people's satisfaction cannot be realized”. I think people's satisfaction, welfare & happiness are achievable.'

A mindset of possibilities. If it is possible in Dubai, it is possible in Nigeria.






SPICY Chrysalis - Speak. Positively. to Inspire. and Cause. to Yield!
April 2012

SPICY NUGGETS - Vision

VISION is the ability to see farther than your physical eyes can look. To see with your 'mind's eye' not just what is but also what can be and make it a reality. Vision is a function of the heart. The core of your purpose and dreams.

Vision is a mental picture of your destiny. A powerful picture painted in your being that translates you from the world and words of impossible to possible!

When you know what you really want and can 'see' it (vision), then no matter what comes along or against you, you will not give up. Vision propels you to pursue your dreams, goals or ambition to accomplish them.

Vision determines your destiny. You are the best person (leader) to drive your vision. The only one who can imagine, nuture and fulfill it. With a clear vision (purpose) you know how to stay the course (focus, motivation) and complete it (achieve, succeed).

Vision adds value to life. It gives you purpose and a sense of direction.



SPICY Chrysalis - Speak. Positively. to Inspire. and Cause. to Yield!


No Message in the Bottle

There is no message in the bottle.
Why do you want to see the bottom?
Let go of the darkness.
The vice that grips is your hold on the bottle.
There is no message in the bottle.
You don't have to see the bottom.

Your tears those bottles won't soothe.

Your fears they won't wash away.
There is no message in the bottle.
Why do you want to see the bottom?

The rage of your storms they won't still

Their dregs hold nothing but anguish.
There is no message in the bottle
You don't have to see the bottom.

Rise up, look up, there in the light is a message.
Raise your head, take a breath, in the freshness is a message.
There is no message in the bottle.
Why do you want to see the bottom?

Stand up, brace up, in your strength is a message.
Fight the lies, face your fears, in the truth is a message.
THERE IS NO MESSAGE IN THE BOTTLE.
YOU DONT HAVE TO SEE THE BOTTOM.
SPICY Chrysalis - Speak. Positively. to Inspire. and Cause. to Yield!
April 25th 2012

Mind Your Language - Speak to bridge, reach and build!


I have been musing over the words... Bridge! Reach! Build! as points of focus when we speak. Let our words 'bridge gaps', 'reach people' and 'build minds'. Language whether spoken or written as a source of communication is not a tool we should look to using lightly when conveying our thoughts, messages and ideas.

When you know what you want to say, consider exactly how best you can say it. You are responsible for sending out a message that is clear and concise. You need to consider what you will say or what you have to say and also how you think the recipient(s) will perceive it. To achieve this, it is of utmost importance that we learn to ask ourselves these questions...

What am I saying?
What is my message?
What is the essence of my message?
How do I give expression to my message?
Am I using the best choice of words to convey my message?
What is the language that best suits my message?

There is also a need to consider our audience...

Who am I speaking to?
Who are my listeners?
How best can I reach them?
How will they receive my message?
How will they react to my choice of words?
What will the words I use mean to them?... etc

No matter how 'timely' our message, if we do not convey them in a manner or ways our audience or listeners will gain understanding. We may have only just made noise!

Words conveying our thoughts, message or ideas are not about us but about the people whom they are meant for. They are the ones that matter when we speak.

When God 'The Universal Word Master' spoke to the earth void and without shape, it took form without confusion. The waters didn't surge up to the skies, neither did the fishes think to fly.

Therefore, words and by them our language is very important and not to be used without thought and consideration. We may well argue that we cannot please everyone but we can very well learn to use words such that they.... Bridge gaps... Reach people... and Build minds!

SPICY Chrysalis - Speak. Positively. to Inspire. and Cause. to Yield

June 21st 2012